A Normal Relationship Does Not Exist

Dealing with love as a young minority is tough and we just have to wrap our minds around the fact that normal sometimes does not exist for us. I just want a normal relationship. I hear this way too often from females around my age group. So I ask; what is a normal relationship? For me the word normal coincides with the word standard and I don't think there are any standards to any relationship. All relationships have their problems big or small.