A Relentless Hope: Surviving the Storm of Teen Depression

Depression and related illnesses threaten to wreck the lives of many teens and their families. Suicide driven by these illnesses is one of the top killers of these young people. How do teens become depressed? What does depression feel like? How can we identify it? What helps depressed teens? What hurts them? How do families cope with teen depression? In A Relentless Hope Gary Nelson uses his experience as a pastor and pastoral counselor to guide the reader through an exploration of these and many other questions about teen depression. Nelson has worked with many teens over the years offering help to those who find themselves confronted by this potentially devastating attacker. The author also uses the story of his own sons journey through depression to weave together insights into the spiritual emotional cognitive biological and relational dimensions of teen depression. Through careful analysis candid self-revelation practical advice and even humor this pastor counselor and father reminds us that Gods light of healing can shine through the darkness of depression and offer hope. A Relentless Hope is written for teens parents teachers pastors and any who walk with the afflicted through this valley of the shadow of death. Whether you are a youth struggling with depression a family member of a depressed teen or a pastor counselor or teacher providing support and help in such circumstances this book is a must read as the most informative and helpful volume available on the subject. --Merle R. Jordan Professor of Pastoral Psychology Emeritus Boston University School of Theology This story of a family is an incredible gift of honest reflection. So many families deal with the issue of teen depression. . . As the dean of a theological school I am aware of the numbers of youth that my students deal with who are in this book. Depression self-medication with alcohol and drugs self doubt and even considerations of suicide as an answer--all are in our communities and probably in even a small church. This book is about an attitude that avoids denial attempts to keep a sense of humor and believes in the miracle of life. Thank you Tom for allowing your story to be told. --Maxine Clarke Beach Vice President and Dean Drew Theological School This is a story of amazing grace! I love the challenge Gary gave the reader throughout the book: Never give up on loving! I was reminded in a very tangible way of the limitless capacity of God who loves us the same way--He never stops! What an incredible mantra for all of us: Never give up on loving. . . . Never! I wonder how different our world would be if we practiced this command? --Rev. Dale Seley Pastor Downtown Baptist Church Alexandria Virginia Gary E. Nelson DMin is a United Methodist minister who for thirty years has worked with teens and their families as a local church pastor and as a pastoral counselor. He currently pastors a church in West Virginia.