Caring for Nigel: Diary of a Wife Coping With Her Husband's Dementia

At the age of sixty-nine Nigel Murray a retired university lecturer and former Army officer was diagnosed with dementia. Doctors suspected he was suffering from a rare and degenerative neurological disorder known as Multiple System Atrophy (MSA). However Nigel also had many of the symptoms of both Parkinsons disease and Lewy Body dementia and an official diagnosis was never made.For four years Nigels wife Eileen kept a diary. This was her safety valve - an outlet for the daily stresses of caring for him at home as his mental and physical health slowly deteriorated. In her diary she gives a frank and detailed account of his challenging and erratic behaviour his bizarre hallucinations the relentless struggle with his incontinence and the endless disturbed nights.Even in her darkest moments Eileens dry Scottish humour shines through - you will laugh one moment and be moved the next. You cant help but smile at Nigels trousers with the appetite mechanism and his special anti-dandruff comb.As the dementia advances Nigel retreats into a busy world of army and lecturing duties harking back to his earlier days. Eventually the burden of running her own one-woman nursing home becomes too much for Eileen and her quest to find respite care begins. This presents challenges of its own.This true and touching account offers a unique insight into the day-to-day experience of caring for someone with dementia or a related illness.Some Amazon Five Star Reviews★★★★★ Excellent - a great read★★★★★ Loved it★★★★★ Very eye opening★★★★★ Brilliant book★★★★★ Sad but a good read★★★★★ A gem★★★★★ Five starsAlso Now Available in Large Print (ISBN: 9781914523182)