Conversational Narcissism in Marriage

This study explores how narcissistic attention seeking behaviors in face-to-face conversation contribute to marital quality and partner's mental health over the transition to parenthood. Narcissism considered a personality disorder is defined as an all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity in fantasy or behavior. Central features of narcissism include a need for admiration and a lack of empathy. The concept of narcissism has been extended beyond mental illness and is now considered a personality trait (Raskin & Terry 1988). It follows then that narcissistic tendencies might affect one’s communication style.This research elaborates the concept of narcissism and discusses the ways that narcissistic patterns in interpersonal relationships have been studied. Finally drawing upon social exchange theory it finds that con­versational narcissism characterizes 78 percent of marriages frequently renders spouses invisible and predicts maladaptive dialogue and divorce at 7 years.