Dancing Around The Volcano - Freeing Our Erotic Lives

From the Publisher In the tradition of Frank Brownings The Culture of Desire comes Guy Kettelhacks provocative honest unapologetic look at the sex lives of gay men. Dancing Around the Volcano is essential reading for the American gay community. Gay men have long been told that regardless of their individual characters and desires they should aspire to a monogamous model in their romantic and sexual relationships. Now Guy Kettelhack wants to tell the truth about the sex gay men are really having offering a path to sexual liberation that embraces the conflicts and paradoxes of sex. Using the voices of different men who tell of their experiences Kettelhack questions the assumptions about the pathology of promiscuity sexual compulsion prostitution sadomasochism fetishes and celibacy. These personal stories are often sexy sometimes funny almost always poignant in their honesty and startling in their insights. We hear about everything from hustling to monogamous gay relationships from the baths to the private bedroom from fisting to French-kissing. What emerges is a sex-positive take on the whole gamut of gay male sexual behavior. Celebrating the ingenuity with which gay men manage their sexual and aggressive drives and fantasies Dancing Around the Volcano is a passionately pro-sex book with potentially healing--even revolutionary--implications for everyone: gay or straight male or female. Editorial Reviews - Dancing Around the Volcano From the Publisher In the tradition of Frank Brownings The Culture of Desire comes Guy Kettelhacks provocative honest unapologetic look at the sex lives of gay men. Dancing Around the Volcano is essential reading for the American gay community. Gay men have long been told that regardless of their individual characters and desires they should aspire to a monogamous model in their romantic and sexual relationships. Now Guy Kettelhack wants to tell the truth about the sex gay men