<p>This extraordinary memoir reveals a life spent exploring what it means to be male and female questioning the rules and rejecting the idea that gender is limited to a single point of description. Challenging heartbreaking deeply reflective and ultimately triumphant this is the journey of one transgender individual who chose to embrace her womanhood without rejecting his manhood: Meredith/Derek learning to be authentic and complete discovering a dual-gender existence for which the rules haven't been written.</p>