Exit

From a renowned sociologist the wisdom of saying goodbyeSara Lawrence-Lightfoot is enthralled by exits: long farewells quick goodbyes sudden endings the ordinary and the extraordinary. There''s a relationship she attests between small goodbyes and our ability to master and mark the larger farewells.In Exit her tenth book she explores the ways we leave one thing and move on to the next; how we anticipate define and reflect on our departures; our epiphanies that something is over and done with. Lawrence-Lightfoot a sociologist and a professor at the Harvard Graduate School of Education has interviewed more than a dozen women and men in states of major change and she paints their portraits with sympathy and insight: a gay man who finds home and wholeness after coming out; a sixteen-year-old boy forced to leave Iran in the midst of the violent civil war; a Catholic priest who leaves the church he has always been devoted to he life he has loved and the work that has been deeply fulfilling; an anthropologist who carefully stages her departure from he field after four years of research; and many more.Too often Lawrence-Lightfoot believes we exalt new beginnings t the expense of learning from our goodbyes. Exit finds isdom and perspective in the possibility of moving on and marks the start of a new conversation to help us discover how we might make our exits with purpose and dignity.