Fifty Years of COVENANT MARRIAGE: God Wrote our Love Story

Marriage is good but you need Gods favor and blessing to build a great marriage resilient enough to last a lifetime. Nothing good ever comes easy: blessings and burdens are soulmates. The road to well of happy and successful marriage passes through well of conflict well of argument well of persecution well of opposition well of temptation well of obstacles. Expect joy and happiness difficulties trials and tribulations as you navigate the tortuous journey through all the changing scenes of life. Be determined to surmount all obstacles at all costs and you will reap lots of fulfillment rewards and blessings at the end of the tunnel. In order to build and grow a great marriage that will last a life time couples need Gods grace and mutual unflinching commitment to their marital vows to navigate the long exciting tortuous tumultuous and mined road to a resilient happy lasting marriage: to have and to hold from this day forward for better for worse for richer for poorer in sickness and in health to love and to cherish till death do us part according to Gods holy ordinance. Work together with intimacy passion and commitment build a Spirit-filled/Spirit-led marriage and the ultimate rewards are heavenly. Your partner is ridden with faults so are you !! Look a little closer and you will see a large reservoir of assets that can be nurtured (with your help understanding and support) to bring out the best in your partner. When God created Eve He did not set out to create another Adam (otherwise He would have molded her in clay) rather He created a partner to compensate for Adams deficiencies and make up for what he lacked. He wanted to create something different yet equally a masterpiece. Clearly Eve was deliberately designed for different tasks which require patience resilience multi-tasking capabilities and many other assets that she would need to cope with the onerous assignment of child-bearing and raising and managing the home front while still contributing to the household economy. God gave Adam dominion over all His creations including his helper but if He had thought that Adam could cope effectively creation of Eve would not have been necessary. A good team is never made up of members with similar competence and instincts and the last thing you want in marriage is another you. Unfortunately couples spend a lot of useful time and energy trying to re-mold their partners in their own image. Two magnets of the same polarity repel each other and compatibility means compatible opposites. Couples who are duplicates are boring self-centered bringing nothing new exciting or innovative to the relationship. Marriage becomes great when couples can develop a partnership with shared family responsibilities help to nurture each others virtues and assets adjust to and accommodate each others deficiencies. Selfishness (I me and myself) has no place in a great marriage. God appointed the husband as the head of the wife. However headship does not imply authoritarianism (military governance). Leadership by competence and example commands respect and compliance. Headship is not so much authority expressed as a chain of commands as it is an acceptance of a vital chain of responsibilities. Key values in growing a resilient marriage include strong partnership communication and conflict resolution skills mutual respect tolerance empathy perseverance and willingness to meet each others deepest needs. Marriage is a lifetime project for better for worse but often the worse comes before the better and only perseverance gets you to the better.