Finding Tomorrow

Through Sharalyn's unflinching honesty we come to understand that grief is not a dead endbut a radical opening. It strips away illusion burns through our defences and delivers us tothe edges of everything we thought we knew-about love life and death. It leads us intoa realm of radical love radical acceptance and the most radical truth of all: the possibilityof a living relationship with the dead.Her story is a gift for anyone who has grieved who has loved and lost. It is a hand held outacross the abyss-a quiet fierce reminder that in the deepest chambers of grief lies a truth:love doesn't die. It transforms. And so can we.- Sarah TolmieLife & Love Holistic Community CareCelebrant & Sacred Deathcare PractitionerA mother's journey through unbearable loss and grief to finding understandingforgiveness and transformation.I didn't know how I was going to survive Ryan's death or at times even if I wanted to. Ididn't think I could do now let alone tomorrow. Some days just one breath at a time wasall I could manage but I knew that to make sense of it I needed to be changed. I needed mylife to be different somehow and I needed to open to the possibilities of a new way of beingin relationship with him. I needed to understand what happened why and how we couldboth be transformed by his life and his death. It has been a challenging and often confrontingjourney but I am so grateful to Ryan for his teaching and for the amazing gifts that he hasgiven me along the way.