Forgetting My Mother: A Blues from the Heartland

When journalist Dan Cryer was just eight his mother unexpectedly died. In their grief he and his siblings shut out all memories of their beloved Pauline. In this haunting memoir Cryer recreates his quest to discover this gentle mystery woman her small-town midwestern milieu and how this haunting absence has shaped his emotional life. [Forgetting My Mother] helped me to understand better than ever the relationship of grief to memory ... very moving an honest and touching work.--Bill MoyersA lovely book: moving textured honest tinged with love and regret and bewilderment and faith and gentle humor.--Poet and editor George Witte author of Does She Have a Name?Dan Cryer tells the story of his mothers death and the impact on the eight-year-old he was with steely precision and deep courage yet with the lyricism of the esteemed writer he has been in a long career. It is a sad and elegiac story but also a haunting mystery tale--as Dan assembles letters diaries yearbooks and newspaper clippings to recreate a portrait of the woman he barely knew. Along the way the reader will get a vivid nuanced picture of daily life in a Midwestern town governed by the centrality of church sports and the doctrine of niceness. Its a work you will want to share with people you hold dear.--Joseph Berger author of Displaced Persons: Growing Up American After the HolocaustThis intelligent and deeply moving memoir opens the door to a lost time and place while evoking the mysteries of a mother-child bond lost and found.--Laura Pedersen author of Buffalo Gal: A MemoirDan Cryer a former book critic at Newsday and Pulitzer Prize finalist is the author of Being Alive and Having to Die: The Spiritual Odyssey of Forrest Church. He has contributed to The Salon.Com Readers Guide to Contemporary Authors and Good Roots: Writers Reflect on Growing Up in Ohio and to many publications including The New Republic Salon The Washington Post and The Boston Globe.