From Survival To Safety

<p>Are we born with our behaviors or do we learn them? Do our stories start at birth or are they</p><p>crafted throughout our life experiences? Can we actually change our beliefs as an adult or is the</p><p>adage people don't change true?</p><p><br></p><p><strong><em>If people get to know the real me they leave.</em></strong></p><p><strong><em>If I want to create change I must create chaos and crisis first.</em></strong></p><p><strong><em>I am not worthy and therefore things will always end up falling apart.</em></strong></p><p><br></p><p>Sound familiar?</p><p><br></p><p>AnnMarie Santamarina a connection coach with clients all over the world carried these stories</p><p>of abandonment and not belonging well into her forties. These beliefs kept her tethered to a</p><p>certain course in life and reinforced the patterns she learned and perpetuated. After living with</p><p>a victim mentality for years-blaming others and existing only in survival mode-AnnMarie</p><p>knew something needed to change. But it didn't take a big life disruption for AnnMarie to</p><p>change her course; she began to implement small subtle adjustments to reclaim her power.</p><p>Adoption betrayal rejection and denial are all critical themes in AnnMarie's story. By replacing</p><p>negative thoughts with affirmative beliefs today she has fully awakened to her own dreams</p><p>and life purpose. Throughout her personal and powerful memoir AnnMarie shares her</p><p>vulnerability and how she found the courage to flip the script of her life and how readers can</p><p>do the same.</p>