Grace in the Gray

<b>By approaching disagreements in a more loving way and seeing the grace and good in those who hold differing viewpoints you'll gain a deeper understanding of others yourself and God--from the bestselling author of <i>Finding God's Life for My Will</i>.</b> <p/> <b>Written with just the right amount of humor reflection and heart <i>Grace in the Gray</i> shows us how to focus on the people we may disagree with more than focusing on the issue at hand.--Mac Powell Grammy Award-winning singer and songwriter</b> <p/>In a culture where constant offense and polarization dominate so many interactions here is good news about a more productive way to disagree: God desires for us to become better at loving others . . . not better at debating. <p/><i>Grace in the Gray</i> helps us see the grace and good that's often hidden by our own limited perspectives and assumptions. Through a collection of personal stories and biblical insights Mike Donehey reveals a four-stage process to help you <p/>1. subjectify those you've objectified<br>2. empathize with those you've vilified<br>3. humanize those you've deified<br>4. see why your posture is as essential as your position <p/>In relationships professional settings and social situations discover how to focus on the <i>person</i> standing before<i> </i>you more than the <i>argument</i> set against you. Doing so gives you the rare ability to face any conflict with better questions kindness and the calming posture of curiosity. <p/>It all begins by learning to listen and lead with the most transformative substance the universe has ever known . . . God's love.