Grounds for Marriage

Who Among Us Is So Wise So Knowledgeable So Insightful So Self-Aware So Well Put Together So Hip So Cool That He Or She Can Choose A Mate At The Age Of Seventeen Twenty-Three Or Even Fifty-Something Who Will Prove To Be A True And Loving Companion Friend And Lover Over The Next Twenty To Seventy Years? Yet This Is What Our Society And Our Elders Expect Us To Do. The Implicit Message Is That We Should Choose A Mate And Enter A Relationship That Will Be Vital And Dynamic And Sexually Stimulating For A Lifetime. In Grounds For Marriage Crosby Challenges The Reader To Consider What Is Myth And What Is Practical Reality. Much Of The Social-Cultural Belief About Love And Marriage Is Nothing More Than Romantic Folklore. I Am Appalled At How Little Preparation In The Choice Of A Mate Our Educational And Religious Establishments Give Our Children And Young People... He Writes. This Book Is A No-Nonsense And Well-Reasoned Approach To The Conscious And Unconscious Dynamics In The Choice Of A Mate. As Such It Is A First Step In Preventing The Sad Lament Expressed By Thousands If Only I Had Known. John F. Crosby Is A Retired Professor Of Marriage/Family Studies And Therapy.