Heartbreak and Happiness

To all adoptive parents whose yearning for a child enabled you to persevere even in your darkest days when you thought it would never happen and the system seemed cold and uncaring. They say what doesn't kill us makes us stronger but in our case it very nearly did-and the ramifications continue. Has this journey been a blessing or a curse? The jury's still out on that one as our lives continue to hold pockets of love and joy amid chaos and desperation. Lest you think our experience with the British adoption system was because we were gay we include our friend's story at the conclusion of ours; her tale is just as frustrating and gut-wrenching. Though we know there are many inspiring and happy adoption stories out there we still must say to anyone considering adoption: Be prepared and beware!