Helping Children Locked in Rage or Hate

<p>This is a guidebook to help children who:</p><ul> <li>hurt hit bite smash kick shout scream or who are out of control hyperaroused or hyperactive</li> <li>can only discharge their angry feelings in verbal or physical attacks rather than being able to think about and reflect on what they feel</li> <li>are angry because it is easier than feeling hurt or sad</li> <li>are locked in anger or rage because of sibling rivalry</li> <li>are controlling and punitive</li> <li>regularly defy authority or are diagnosed with a conduct disorder</li> <li>commit cold acts of cruelty hurt animals or do not cry any more; spoil damage or destroy what others do or make</li> <li>create fear in others because they have locked away their own fears</li> <li>do not want to please people cannot trust have stopped looking for love or approval or truly believe they do not need anyone</li> <li>do not really know how to 'like' someone; and definitely do not know how to love someone or are affectionate only if they want something.</li> </ul>