How It Feels to Find Yourself

<b>From the author of <i>Start Where You Are</i> comes an illustrated guide for moving through life’s biggest transitions with purpose and clarity.</b><br><br><i>    How It Feels to Find Yourself</i> pairs vibrant color palettes with thoughtful observations and guidance for navigating the most important relationship in our lives: the one we have with ourselves.<br>    Through illustrated charts honest essays and insightful questions for deeper reflection Meera Lee Patel encourages us to sharpen our internal compasses—so we can discover our purpose let go of what we’ve outgrown and navigate challenging relationships with confidence.<br>    <i>How It Feels to Find Yourself</i> provides comfort for the difficult moments in life while serving as a source for deeper learning. It is a valuable gift for anyone who is facing uncertainty or entering a new chapter in life. Each page creates nostalgia for the places and experiences we’ve already encountered while shining a hopeful light toward where we are headed next. <i>How It Feels To Find Yourself is</i> the book that we all need on our nightstands. It reminds us that regardless of the day we've experienced; we are still beautifully and devastatingly hopeful and human. Meera Lee Patel's colorful artwork illustrates the expansiveness of our feelings and her stunning words remind us that life is a spectrum of many emotions; comfort discomfort acceptance loneliness love enthusiasm and open-heartedness too. And though that spectrum may not always be convenient it undoubtedly leads us to the truest versions of ourselves. This book is a beautiful gift to all of us. <br>—Cyndie Spiegel bestselling author of <i>A Year of Positive Thinking</i> and <i>Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay</i> <b>Meera Lee Patel</b> is a self-taught artist and the author of several best-selling journals including <i>Start Where You Are</i>. She is also the author of <i>My Friend Fear: Finding Magic in the Unknown</i> a book of essays on befriending fear. She creates work that encourages others to connect with themselves one another and the world around them. She lives with her husband and daughter in Saint Louis Missouri. When You Become Whole on Your Own<br><br>I spent most of my twenties waiting for someone else to put me together: to tell me I was good enough to make me less afraid to teach me what I should value most. I weighed other people’s opinions more than my own due to insecurity and a lack of self-trust which meant the decisions I made were based on someone else’s ideas of who I should be. What I most longed for was a sense of wholeness but I looked for it in the wrong place: somewhere outside myself. My life began coming together when I realized that the only person responsible for my happiness . . . is me. I stopped waiting for someone else to give me permission and began living the life I wanted. I traveled alone because I wanted to see the world. I painted because I felt there was an artist inside me. I reached out to strangers and asked if they wanted to spend time together. I nurtured these new connections and received the gift of incredible friendship in return. I said yes to opportunities that scared me and became more confident each time I accomplished something I never thought I would. Becoming whole is an ongoing process—something you will achieve only to find that once again it’s all come undone. Life stretches to accommodate your vision of it and what I dreamt of was a life bursting with a variety of experiences and environments. My life now reflects the one I dreamt of: not one without failure or sadness but one that has a sense of fullness— because there is meaning stitched through every experience. <b>From the author of <i>Start Where You Are</i> comes an illustrated guide for moving through life’s biggest transitions with purpose and clarity.</b><br><br><i>    How It Feels to Find Yourself</i> pairs vibrant color palettes with thoughtful observations and guidance for navigating the most important relationship in our lives: the one we have with ourselves.<br>    Through illustrated charts honest essays and insightful questions for deeper reflection Meera Lee Patel encourages us to sharpen our internal compasses—so we can discover our purpose let go of what we’ve outgrown and navigate challenging relationships with confidence.<br>    <i>How It Feels to Find Yourself</i> provides comfort for the difficult moments in life while serving as a source for deeper learning. It is a valuable gift for anyone who is facing uncertainty or entering a new chapter in life. Each page creates nostalgia for the places and experiences we’ve already encountered while shining a hopeful light toward where we are headed next.