<p>You want to have a good Christmas. Really you do. But every year something steals your joy. Could that something be you?</p><p>At Christmas there's lots of talk about comfort and joy...but the reality of the season is often less than jolly. The holidays have a way of underscoring grief magnifying divisions and creating chaos in the fragile balance of our busy lives. </p><p>Forget peace on earth - you just want some peace at your dinner table.</p><p>Is there anything you can do to make Christmas all you wish it could be?</p><p><br></p>