This is a book that tries to help church members step back and see the bigger picture. An effective pastoral relationship is more like a couple who loves to dance together or a band that plays wonderful music. If we spend too much time on the details without remembering that we want to dance and sing our church will not have much to offer to Gospel ministry. This book then seeks to blaze a new trail for churches who want to thrive in authentic faithful ministry with their pastor. In other words