I Am Not A Stereotype: I Am H.E.R.

The imperfect book written with the perfect message. Its purposely flawed (meaning it was deliberately edited to have mistakes). She wanted the world to understand imperfections are apart life and if you see yourself and people beyond the flaws there is beauty and so is the story. Socialized to have a need for belongingness; and it came at the expense of ridicule criticism & losing who Dr. Pam was. How mentally toxic and taxing it was to live a life living up to other peoples standards of whom she needed to be. She had to STOP IT! She had to change the narrative & stop believing in the stereotyping of whom she was taught to believe she should be! She had to heal get real forgive and learn to sit on her pedestal to holistically see the world differently. Now she does not allow judgment to change who she is. Dr. Pam no longer allows anyone to determine what she loves how she loves or reduce who she is because of their own insecurities or mental demons. She is letting the world know she is not a stereotype...I am H.E.R! Now its your turn! Its time to live your unapologetic truth. Be encouraged and inspired to look at your life be comfortable in your skin sit on your pedestal and start having discussions to change the narrative of imperfection in this world filled with criticism social inequality and social judgment.