I Came I Saw I Coffeed

<p><strong>Have you ever wondered what goes through a man's mind when you first meet? </strong></p><p><strong>Why didn't he call me back? What did he think of me? Did I say the wrong thing? </strong></p><p> </p><p>I was newly singled after an unwanted divorce and retired early so I had time on my hands to find a girlfriend.   I didn't want to be alone and hadn't dated in years. I was eager to meet a woman and became discouraged trying to find someone to be your love your best-trusted friend a confidant and companion -- a very difficult task. </p><p><br></p><p>Seeing my low spirits to get on with a search to find a woman a good friend simply told me dating is Just a game of numbers -- the more ladies you meet the better decision you'll make. So I ventured into the field of online dating and over three years met over 350 ladies. Many women asked me what goes through a man's mind when he meets a woman. In this book I spell out my thoughts about some of the women I met her walk her appearance demeanor clothes habits figure etc. in detail. </p><p><br></p><p>How did I arrange online to meet over 350 women? I simply explained I preferred meeting in person rather than trading potentially misunderstood messages online. You can't hear voice inflections or observe body language in a message. Most women agreed. Of course some asked to first talk on the phone before meeting up which I did. </p><p><br></p><p>Each evening I searched the dating site sending smiles or greetings to 20-30 women per day and got numerous replies the next day and proceeded to schedule them as best as I could. </p><p><br></p><p>All my life I enjoyed meeting new people. The women were fascinating fun and interesting. Of course I don't know what other men think and obviously the impressions I describe in this book are my own. I hope women who read this book will find it insightful entertaining amusing and useful. Names and places have been changed for privacy.  </p><p><br></p><p><em> It's not the impression you make -- it's the impression you leave. And keep in mind you'll have to live up to that first impression so it's best to be just yourself. -Anonymous</em></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>