I Win We Lose: The New Social Darwinism and the Death of Love and Other Writings

John Hall Snow was professor of pastoral theology at the Episcopal Divinity School and considered preacher-in-residence at Christ Church Cambridge Massachusetts for over eighteen years. In this previously unpublished manuscript Snow outlines his critique of American culture building on Americas adoption of Herbert Spencers social theory known as survival of the fittest. The unconscious acceptance of his theory has reduced us to winners and losers leading us to disfigure language and truth. Snow writes We lie to others and ourselves basically because we believe that lies facilitate whatever it is that we want to do. The basic untruth of human existence is that we can control reality by making it over in the image that we want it to be by words. And since words are all we have to define reality everything we do and think is touched by untruth. Even the best as well as the worst of us do this. The best withhold the truth; the worst distort it. The overriding priority is the goal not the truth. The idea seems to be that what we have built with words will become reality. Kudos to editor Rick Stecker for bringing this volume to print because God knows Snows kind of savvy cultural critique and compassionate wisdom is welcome sustenance for the journey. --Marvin M. Ellison Willard S. Bass Professor Emeritus of Christian Ethics Bangor Theological Seminary; Director of Alumni/ae Relations Union Theological Seminary Snows work represents a thoughtful provocative and problematic reflection on a basic American and probably human paradox: We must compete with others while also taking care of them. [H]is insights . . . will be relevant to a wide variety of contemporary readers. --Craig Greenman Associate Professor of Philosophy Colby-Sawyer College This book belongs in every preachers study. -- A. Robert Hirschfeld Bishop of the Episcopal Church of New Hampshire If there is anyone left out there who really cares to discover the roots of the deep trouble in which we find ourselves these days both as a culture and as a Christian community this book is serious help of the first order. --Thom Blair Jr. John Snows sharp analysis of achievement and class is a profound moment in human relationships. --John L. Hooker Sometime Professor of Liturgy Homiletics and Music Episcopal Divinity School Snows . . . gift for articulating deep truths makes this previously unpublished work every bit as current as when it was first penned. --Alan M. Gates Episcopal Bishop of Massachusetts This is a bracing and inspiring book. --Margaret Bullitt-Jonas Missioner for Creation Care Episcopal Diocese of Western Massachusetts Frederick Stecker is an Episcopal minister and a student of religion and culture. He holds doctorates from Bangor Theological Seminary and from the Institute for the Study of Violence of the Boston Graduate School of Psychoanalysis. He is the author of The Podium the Pulpit and the Republicans: How Presidential Candidates Use Religious Language in American Political Debate (Santa Barbara: Praeger 2011; Pbk 2015).