It Isn't Fair! Siblings of Children with Disabilities

Parenting is always a vital and challenging task. Even more vital and challenging is the task of parenting a child with a disability. When there is more than one child in the family all parents want to share their time energy and love with all their children--and all siblings sometimes wonder if they are being treated fairly. When one child in a family has a disability all this becomes more complex. Parents and sisters and brothers often feel that for them It isn''t fair. Selected and compiled from two decades of The Exceptional Parent magazine It Isn''t Fair! reveals first-hand the myriad feelings of normal brothers and sisters at all stages as they grapple with caretaking frustration powerlessness jealousy guilt and worry about their special siblings. Breaking the wall of silence that deference has imposed on their experiences here are the siblings of the child with autism the child injured at birth the child institutionalized after many years at home. Parents offer their own experiences and perspectives on their children and they illustrate the importance of sharing information within the family. The editors also include professional commentary.