It's Always the Love

<p><strong>It's Always the Love</strong> is an exploration of the deepest force shaping human life: emotional connection. Drawing on more than four decades of clinical psychological work Henry Gobus reveals that love-far more than instinct competition or chance-is the organising principle behind human development behaviour and wellbeing. From infancy to adulthood our capacity to love and be loved determines how we learn relate cope grow and make sense of our place in the world.</p><p>Gobus explains in clear and grounded language how emotional attachment forms the foundation of resilience confidence compassion and mental health. He shows how early relational experiences shape our internal world and how unmet emotional needs often manifest later as anxiety conflict relationship difficulties or feelings of disconnection. Through this lens many of life's long-standing struggles become understandable-and more importantly addressable.</p><p>At the heart of this book is a simple but transformative message: much of what we experience fear desire or seek in life traces back to whether love was present absent consistent or unpredictable at crucial moments in our development. By recognising these emotional patterns we can heal reconnect and change the direction of our lives.</p><p>Compassionate insightful and deeply human <strong>It's Always the Love</strong> offers readers a new way of understanding themselves and others. It challenges long-held assumptions about human nature reframes common psychological problems and highlights the profound power of emotional connection in shaping who we become-more than anything else.</p>