Ivalin kathai yathenin / இவளின் கதை யாதெனின்

Women seem to be created only to cry ...... they say baby girl to sit next to them and cry when their parents die. Why shouldnt male children be beautiful? Or did they get girls just to cry at that point .....? Even if there is a minor accident to someone in the house the women are still there tearing their hair and crying. Why is the woman portrayed as a crying character ....? Who is responsible for all this ....? Women or community .....?