I've Killed Some Versions of Myself to Be This Calm

<p><strong>What if everything you're doing to improve yourself is actually what's killing you?</strong></p><p>At 43 Fransesco Malila had it all-thriving career beautiful family respected position in his Tanzanian community. He was also dying inside exhausted from maintaining false versions of himself.</p><p>Then came the morning he couldn't move. Paralysed by the weight of his own performances Francesco faced a terrifying choice: continue the slow death of false selves or kill them first.</p><p>This isn't another self-help book. It's a map through actual transformation.</p><p> </p><p>With brutal honesty and profound wisdom Fransesco documents the conscious killing of his five false selves:</p><p>• The People-Pleaser who couldn't say no</p><p>• The Perfectionist who couldn't rest</p><p>• The Victim who couldn't heal</p><p>• The Impostor who couldn't stop performing</p><p>• The Busy Addict who couldn't be still</p><p> </p><p>But this book goes deeper than a personal story. Fransesco maps the entire territory of transformation:</p><p>✓ How to recognise what needs to die</p><p>✓ Why we fight to keep what's killing us</p><p>✓ Tools that actually reach where surface solutions can't</p><p>✓ The terrifying void between false and true</p><p>✓ The unexpected calm that emerges when you stop performing</p><p> </p><p>Raw. Honest. Transformative.</p><p> </p><p>This book includes:</p><p>• 12 in-depth chapters of personal journey and practical wisdom</p><p>• Specific exercises and tools for transformation</p><p>• Letters to false selves showing how to release them</p><p>• The truth about the void no other book discusses</p><p>• A complete guide from exhaustion to authenticity</p><p> </p><p>Perfect for readers who:</p><p>• Feel exhausted from being someone they're not</p><p>• Sense something needs to change but can't identify what</p><p>• Are ready for deeper work than surface self-help</p><p>• Want genuine calm not temporary peace</p><p>• Loved Untamed The Body Keeps the Score or When Things Fall Apart</p><p> </p><p>From Tanzania to the world-this is transformation without the sugar-coating.</p><p> </p><p>Your false selves are killing you softly.</p><p>Isn't it time you returned the favour?</p><p> </p><p><strong>Scroll up and click Buy Now to begin your journey from false to true.</strong></p><p> </p>