LOVING is GREETED here- a straight forwarded purgatorial journey - as an invitation to face complex issues of the human odyssey: Who am I? How do I want to BE? What can WE BE as human beings?What's it all about to BE equitable now?LOVING here distinguishes soul-coring intimacy from falling in love eloquently explores by Toni Morrison's examples of misused Love and ex[posed as abuse love for the kingdom by King Lear's Usurpation of three daughters' love with promises of privilege and parental regard; these misuses of LOVING and Being IN LOVING murder humanity's jazzin'; for kincaring. This narrative rejects such UNLOVING scripts and habits as it offers antidotes with LOVING content and tools for equitable kincaring IN LOVING