<h1>Have too much self-control?</h1><p><br></p><p><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Society tells you self-control is great; it's a virtue. Yet, your success in managing emotions, getting the job done, getting accolades for being detail-oriented, planful, driven, etc. haven't led to success in your intimate relationships and in the bedroom.</span></p><p><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">You've been told how being </span><em style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">naughty</em><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)"> gets you into trouble and that you should live by the rules to be successful. So, you developed self-control. Too much self-control, however, wreaks havoc in areas where vulnerability is essential: intimate relationships and sex life.</span></p><p><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Can you have too much self-control? You bet!</span></p><h4><br></h4><h2>The Overcontrolled Temperament</h2><p><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Too much self-control, also known as the Overcontrolled Temperament, is characterized by the following core traits:</span></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Not being open to new, strange, and unexpected experiences; tendency to avoid uncertainty; being risk-averse; threat sensitivity and hypervigilance.</li><li>Compulsive need for structure and order; hyperperfectionism; rigid rule-governed behavior; high moral certitude; the strong belief in what "should be, must be, has to be."</li><li>Flat or neutral face; not easily excited; avoiding vulnerability; saying "fine" when things aren't fine; pride in having a "stable mood."</li><li>Feeling alone and that nobody quite gets you or understands you; comparing yourself to others; feeling envious and bitter.</li></ul><p><br></p><h2>Discover How the above Core Traits can Ruin your Sex Life and Find Powerful Solutions.</h2><p><strong>Commons Sexual Problems of Overcontrolled People:</strong> Are you experiencing low sexual desire, emotional distance from your partner, sexual performance anxiety, sexual perfectionism, anorgasmia, sexual dysfunction, or sexual pain disorders? <span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Then you owe it to yourself to read </span><em style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Making Nice with Naughty.</em></p><p>Why? Because you're not alone. Millions, just like you, struggle with relaxing and being playful during sex. Naughty has gotten a bad rap and represents so much of what you've come to avoid: mystery, unpredictability, unfamiliarity, and uncertainty. Yet, these features are essential to acquiring a meaningful and fulfilling sex life.</p><p><br></p><p><strong style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">Get Sage Advice From a Leading Sexologist.</strong><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)"> It's time to </span><em style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">make nice with naughty</em><span style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)">! Integrating several innovative and effective psychotherapies, Dr. Thomas L. Murray, Jr. takes you on an eye-opening journey, using humor and directness, to help you get what you want: a more fulfilling sex life. Here's why you'll love this guide:</span></p><ul><li><strong>Discover how too much self-control underlies many sexual and relationship problems</strong></li><li><strong>Reconnect with your partner using the power of vulnerability</strong></li><li><strong>Experience freedom from old patterns of thinking</strong></li><li><strong>Change your relationship with anxiety and embrace uncertainty</strong></li><li><strong>Reduce negative self-talk</strong></li><li><strong>Develop psychological flexibility</strong></li><li><strong>Apply new and powerful mindfulness techniques</strong></li><li><strong>Transition from performance-based to pleasure-based sex</strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)"><u>Are you ready?</u></strong></p><p><br></p><h3><strong style="color: rgba(15, 17, 17, 1)"><u>Scroll up, click buy, and get started now!</u></strong></h3>