<p>What does it take to get along for a lifetime? Men and women share a deadly problem that kills good relating. The problem is this: we are committed first of all to ourselves. Each of us without blushing holds fast to an overriding concern for our own well-being.</p><p>Sharing people's stories and personal anecdotes Crabb explores how we can turn away from ourselves and toward each other how we can become what he calls other-centered.</p><p>In <em>Men and Women</em> Dr. Crabb maintains that men and women are different in important ways that if understood and honored can lead to a deep enjoyment of one another an enjoyment that can last forever.</p>