Move Over Victoria--I Know the Real Secret

Which Everyday Idols Are Holding You Captive?. FOOD. BUSYNESS. IMAGE. POSSESSIONS. ACHIEVEMENT. APPROVAL. CONTROL. PERFECTIONISM. ATTENTION. HAPPINESS. BEING RIGHT. PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS. INDEPENDENCE. REVENGE. SELF-PITY. LOVE. SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS.. Like most women you probably have a life filled with modern-day idols that attempt to steal your attention and affection from God. Innocent-seeming idols like chocolate thighs of iron and a home that rivals Martha Stewart's. Things you turn to first before turning to God when you long for comfort affirmation self-worth or love. . You know that God is the answer to all your needs. But then you have a fight with your husband and that cheesecake in the fridge starts calling your name. You stay home from a women's retreat because your wardrobe is (literally) from the last century. You desperately wish that your house or hair or kids were as nice as your friend's (or anybody else's).