A victor of thirty years of abuse, identity crisis, toxic and abusive relationships, I have conquered what only a champion would live and tell. As an adult, my life consisted of patterns and behaviors created and planted in my childhood. The incest, sexual coercion, physical, verbal and sexual abuse caused me to lack self-love and self-worth. What appeared to be my demise only lead to an identity crisis that included more lies, betrayal and deceit, secrecy, sexual deviation and more abuse. I was emotionally unstable and destined to be mistreated and abused. I fed the "Seed of Betrayal" and lived as a bisexual woman being loose and living precariously. My lack of faith in the Lord led to more depression, attempted suicide and the birth of this book. Rock bottom again, only this time I had no one to blame but myself. The choices I made may have stemmed from 20 years ago, but I willingly made them. However, GOD saved me again and this time I will never leave Him. If you read Perfectly Planned, pick up right where you left off and be taken into a world of self-betrayal that only I would live and tell. Without any shame and embarrassment, I share my life again in an attempt to raise awareness, provide hope and courage, liberate others and in essence become the victorious leader I am today.