Relaxed Parenting

Parents free from anxiety and inner turmoil children will be neither fragile nor short-tempered父母不焦虑不内耗，孩子不脆弱不暴躁From the moment a child is born countless questions begin to strike parents' nervous nerves: Why does my child learn to speak later than other children? Why has he been eating so little lately? I treat him wholeheartedly why does he confront me? When parents who are prone to irritability and anxiety collide with children under high pressure and intensity family wars are about to erupt.Faced with this dilemma Janusz Kozak provided his own solution early on: requiring the child to be self accommodating provided that the parents first settle themselves in without hesitation hesitation or panic.This book aims to guide the new generation of parents to be appropriately open-minded and lazy not to be sacrificial parents who take care of everything and to face life with their children with a soft and determined attitude. Only families with a sense of relaxation can raise children who are full of happiness.自孩子出生那一刻起，就有无数个问题开始撞击父母紧张的神经：我的孩子为什么比别的孩子更晚学会说话？他最近怎么吃的这么少？我全心全意对待他，他凭什么顶撞我？当易暴躁、易焦虑的父母撞上高压力、高强度之下的孩子，家庭战争一触即发。面对这种困境，雅努什·科扎克早早给出了自己的解决方案：要求孩子自容自洽，前提是家长先向内安顿自己，不纠结、不拧巴、不慌张。本书旨在引导新一代父母适当心宽手懒，不做大包大揽的牺牲式父母，以柔软、笃定的姿态和孩子一起面对生活。有松弛感的家庭，才能养出幸福感满满的孩子。