Spy Daughter Queer Girl

2023 Judy Grahn Award Finalist for Best Lesbian Nonfiction. For Leslie Absher secrecy is just another member of the family. Throughout childhood her father's shadowy government job was ill-defined her mother's mental health stayed off limits--even her queer identity remained hidden from her family and unacknowledged by Leslie herself.In SPY DAUGHTER QUEER GIRL Absher pursues the truth: of her family her identity and her father's role in Greece's CIA-backed junta. As a guide Absher brings readers to the shade of plane trees in Greece to queer discos in Boston and to tense diner meals with her aging CIA father. As a memoirist Absher renders a lifetime of hazy shapeshifting truths in high-definition vibrance.Infused with a journalist's tenacity and a daughter's open heart this book recounts a decades' long process of discovery and the reason why the facts should matter to us all.. Leslie Absher is a journalist and personal essay writer. Her work has appeared in the Los Angeles Times Independent Salon Huffington Post Ms. Greek Reporter and the San Francisco Chronicle.. Praise for Spy Daughter Queer Girl:Spy Daughter Queer Girl is succinctly written gorgeously rendered and emotionally illuminating. One could describe it as part memoir part spy thriller but it also has a wider scope: It brings to life a micro-history of being young and gay in America in the ’80s.--Sophia Glock Ms. magazineThe fierceness of Absher’s courageous quest to learn the gut-wrenching truths of her father’s obfuscations parallels her search for her own truths in struggling to know herself as a gay woman....This book is a treasure.--Kathryn Watterson author of Women in Prison Not by the Sword and I Hear My People Singing. “A riveting examination of identity and how the people who raise us make us—and how we all must continually remake ourselves. A moving portrait of a father-daughter relationship defined by secrets so big they spanned continents. Absher writes with heart humor and the grace that comes with forgiveness—the ultimate mission impossible.”--Jessica Pearce Rotondi author of What We Inherit: A Secret War and a Family’s Search for Answers. Leslie tells her story with soul-searing honesty plenty of self-deprecation and humour. In working through her own story confronting her difficult past she's revealed the human damage - most often to innocents - inflicted by the espionage game played out on the global chessboard. --Ian Callaghan producer of the Audible Original series My Dad the Spy. A gut-wrenching portrait of a daughter in search of her father’s love affection and attention with Greece as a backdrop and the CIA always in the shadows. It is a cautionary tale about the effects of parental neglect and ultimately a long overdue and touching reconciliation between father and daughter. I loved the book as a Greek American a former CIA officer and the father of a brave LGBTQ activist who may have felt many similar emotions growing up in a CIA family. --Marc Polymeropoulos former CIA senior intelligence officer and author of Clarity in Crisis: Leadership Lessons from the CIAWithout a drop of sentimentality but with a giant heart and a fresh assured voice Absher explores the roles of memory secrets and the grief that comes from what we hide and what we leave behind -- and what we simply cannot. --Natalie Bakopoulos author of Scorpionfish and The Green Shore. “In rich crisp prose Leslie Absher immerses the reader into a world of espionage loss love and becoming.”--Kacy Tellessen author of Freaks of a Feather: A Marine Grunt’s Memoir