The Heart & Soul of Parenting Handbook: Step-by-Step Skills to Empower Both Parent & Child

Discover youre not a bad parent after all!You simply dont have what you need to parent well: correct information that really works so youll never again need to yell feel like your kids control you or have another meltdown.Thats right you can stop feeling guilt or shame because youre not an expert in parenting. With step-by-step instructions appropriate for all ages (toddlers to teens) youll get down to the nitty-gritty of your childs nature and how to clearly communicate so you can be consistently effective. This may sound like really high-level stuff and it is. But as you will see its easy and simple when you know how. And the Thinking Chair & Find Your Peace(TM) (TCFP) approach gives you the perfect system and guide rails for doing this like a pro. (pg. 12) This methods wisdom and effectiveness are rooted in what the children taught me about themselves-their innocence motivations needs insecurities their desire to be really good people along with what gains their love trust respect gratitude and admiration for teaching them values in a loving and authoritative way that makes them feel really safe. Besides its positive attention from you! Its the type of caring attention that they crave from adults who are important to them. (pg. 13)TCFP is based not only on what we psychologically understand about kids but even more so on what kids have repeatedly shown us works for them: Kids just understand it and that makes them feel secure thus cooperative.Great skills youll learn include how to: (1) transform temper tantrums into Finding Your Peace (2) nip sibling rivalry in the bud (3) deal with lying stealing and bullying (4) turn around a strong-willed or obstinately stubborn child (5) stop defiance and squabbling kids (6) gain insight into negative behaviors (7) have open honest communication with your child at all ages (8) teach accountability for ones actions (9) encourage desirable and positive behavior changes (10) develop a strong moral compass and positive character traits...and more. Have FUN and maybe some snuggles but not struggles with your kids!Parents/Teachers: Get COVID RELIEF and SAVVY TIPS for dealing with children and teens at home during this crisis. Survive pressure-cooker lives with creative ideas for self-discipline projects and scheduling. Learn healthy ways to defuse explosive feelings while relieving stress and anxiety-parents and kids finding peace together!