The pain and frustration that came with being jobless and womanless turned Amir a sensitive guy with a gentle soul into a sex monster. In a vulgar yet somehow sensitive manner Amir tells us of his sexual and non-sexual experiences in New York where he went to study film. During his time there he meets Philly with whom he falls head over heels in love; yet during a wonderful orgy she abruptly kicks him out. This only makes him sicker - at a time when all he is asking for is love.<br /><br />I thought I loved women so I was with a lot. And then I met someone who told me that a guy who loves women only needs one. So I was with one woman every day.<br /><br />Heitner's second and much loved book was translated and distributed in Germany by KEIN&amp;ABER under the name liebe-und-anderer-schlamassel.