The Priority of the Other

Psychology having come of age under the influence of Descartes and other champions of the thinking I has come to focus largely on what happens inside the self. This perspective expanded with the emergence of social psychology and more recently cultural psychology but by and large the field has taken an essentially ego-centric approach. Working from this basic premise Mark Freeman proposes that we adopt a more ex-centric perspective one that affirms the priority of the Other in shaping human experience. In speaking of the Other Freeman refers not only to other people but also to those non-human others nature art God that take us beyond the ego and bring us closer to the world. In speaking of the Other''s priority he insists that there is much in life that comes before us. By thinking and living the priority of the Other we can therefore become better attuned to both the world beyond us and the world within. At the heart of Freeman''s perspective are two fundamental ideas. The first is that the Other is the primary source of meaning inspiration and existential nourishment. The second is that it is the primary source of our ethical energies and that being responsive and responsible to the world beyond us is a defining feature of our humanity. There is a tragic side to Freeman''s story however. Enraptured though we may be by the Other we frequently encounter it in a state of distraction and fail to receive the nourishment and inspiration it can provide. And responsive and responsible though we may sometimes be it is perilously easy to retreat inward to the needy ego. The challenge therefore is to break the spell of the ordinary oblivion that characterizes much of everyday life. The Priority of the Other can help us rise to the occasion.