The Security of Silence

The Security Of Silencethe First Novel Of The Trilogy Portrays The Lives Of Emilie And Friederich Malin Originating In The Late 19Th And Early 20Th Centuries In Southwestern Germany. Emilie Came From An Upper Middle Class Family Whose Father Was A Newspaper Owner/Publisher. Tragically She Lost Her Father When She Was 13 Years Of Age And Never Quite Got Over The Loss. She Met An Older Man Who Was Not Only A Prosperous Businessman But One Whose Family Her Mother Said Was From The Lowest Class In Town. She Ignored Her MotherS Advice And Married Him. He Became A Father Surrogate For Her. She Had Everything She Wanted. Her Comfortable Life Style Continued Even Though She Discovered Her Husband Had An Unsavory Appetite For Women. She Attributed His Difficulty In Relating To Other Persons Because Of A War Wound As A Soldier In The German Army In World War I. He Had Lost His Ability To Speak In A Normal Tone Of Voice Due To The Incompetence Of The Field Surgeon Who Cut The Nerves To His Vocal Cords. He Could Only Whisper And Subsequently Emilie Became His Interpreter With The Customers For His Business. He Resented This Dependence Upon Her And Decided It Would Be Best To Emigrate To America As The Rest Of His Family Had Done. Emilie Did Not Want To Leave Germany But She Felt Herself Trapped In A Marriage From Which She Believed She Could Not Escape. She Was Afraid Of Her HusbandS Anger And Felt For The Sake Of Their Children She Would Have To Remain Silent.. The Security Of Silence Begins In The Late Nineteenth Century And Continues Through The Early Decades Of The Twentieth Century. It Is The Story Of Emilie Elizabeth Louise Bartholomae Who Was Born And Grew Up In A Small Southern German Village. Her Childhood Was Idyllic Until The Death Of Her Father Changes The Family Circumstances Of Privilege And Economic Security To Uncertainty And Fear For The Future. The Onset Of The World War I And Its Tragic Aftermath For Both The Country And The Bartholomae Family Makes Emilie Feel Uncertain And Threatened By The On Rush Of Events And Circumstances Over Which She Feels She Has Little Or No Control. She Marries A Man Many Years Her Senior Whom She Believes Can Provide Security For Her And Her Family. Even Though Her Mother Warns Her About The History Of Her Husbands Family She Dismisses These Comments. She Soon Discovers However Her Husband Has The Tendencies Of A Sexual Predator. She Remains Silent And Thereby Denies The Reality Of His Behavior. She Believes It Is The Result Of His Wound From The War.. . While Emilie And Her Growing Family Are Well Off By Local Standards Because Of Her Husbands Successful Business She Refuses To Recognize His Sexual Proclivity. Having Been Schooled In The Culture Of Accepting Whatever The Husband Decides She Remains Silent. Economic Security Becomes The Trade-Off For Her Silence Against Her Husbands Conduct Which She Knows Is Wrong. What Seems Like An Unconscious Decision On Her Part To Avoid Any Threat To Her Or Her Family By Ignoring Her Subconscious Suspicions She Actually Supports His Unsavory Behavior. . The Novel Traces The Transition Of A Woman From A Relatively High Social Status With A Good Education And Profession To The Uncertainty Of A Marriage To A Man Whom She Believes Will Provide Her With The Same Style Of Life To Which She Had Become Accustomed As A Little Girl. Little Does She Realize The Impact The Social Differences Between Her And Her Husbands Family Have Upon Their Common Future. Unbeknownst To Her The Security Of Silence Becomes The Leitmotif Of Her Entire Life.