Tuff Stuff: My Parent the Officer/Soldier

"Having a mom, dad, stepparent, or guardian that is police officer or in the military can make you feel lots of positive emotions. You may feel proud to have a parent who helps others. You may feel happy and safe knowing that they protect people. On the other hand, having a parent in this job can also bring negative feelings, such as fear, confusion, or sadness.My dad, Lieutenant Randall Pasley Sr., was a police officer for Austin Police Department and also a veteran of the Air Force. I can remember many different situations with my dad where I was happy and grateful, but then I can also remember the times I felt confused and sad.The stories I share with you come first hand from my own experiences, along with some from friends and clients in similar situation. All of the people’s names have been disguised to protect their identity. Through these stories, I to give you some insight and direction through the “tuff stuff” you face in this particular situation."