Twofold Parenting

<p><strong>Your child craves routine but can't maintain it. Seeks friends but can't make them. Hyperfocuses for hours on interests but can't focus for minutes on homework. You're not imagining the contradictions—you're witnessing AuDHD.</strong></p><p>When autism spectrum disorder and ADHD exist together in the same child the result isn't simply the sum of two conditions. It's a unique presentation creating profound internal paradoxes that confuse even professionals meant to help. One diagnosis demands structure and predictability; the other craves novelty and stimulation. One creates sensory sensitivities; the other drives sensory seeking. The clash is exhausting for children and families alike.</p><p><strong>This book fills that void.</strong></p><p>Combining a mother's deeply personal memoir with evidence-based guidance this comprehensive resource offers what desperate parents need: validation that the contradictions are real explanation for why they occur and practical strategies for supporting children whose brains work differently.</p><p><strong>What makes this book different:</strong></p><p><strong>Lived Experience Meets Research</strong> - Every chapter draws from years of real parenting challenges alongside current neuroscience developmental psychology and clinical studies. The messy grocery store meltdowns. The school meetings going nowhere. The strategies working brilliantly one day and failing completely the next. All of it honestly shared.</p><p><strong>From Confusion to Clarity</strong> - Start with those confusing early years when you knew something was different but couldn't name it. Move through the dual diagnosis that changed everything. Navigate evaluation intervention school advocacy and daily challenges with a guide who's walked this exact path.</p><p><strong>Practical Strategies That Actually Work</strong> - Not theories. Not philosophies. Actionable approaches you can implement immediately: accommodation ideas communication scripts advocacy techniques sensory solutions and behavioral strategies specifically adapted for AuDHD's unique contradictions.</p><p><strong>Honest About the Hard Parts</strong> - No toxic positivity here. Some days are brutally difficult. Some strategies fail spectacularly. Some phases feel endless. This book doesn't pretend otherwise because parents deserve truth alongside hope.</p><p><strong>Inside You'll Discover:</strong></p><p>Why AuDHD creates internal paradoxes and how to recognize them</p><p>How to document concerns and advocate effectively with professionals</p><p>Building your support team and navigating medical systems</p><p>Understanding the neurobiology behind contradictory behaviors</p><p>Sensory processing strategies for both seeking and avoiding</p><p>Executive function support adapted for dual diagnosis</p><p>School advocacy and IEP/504 accommodation planning</p><p>Managing emotional dysregulation and social challenges</p><p>Self-care for parents facing exhaustion and overwhelm</p><p>Research translation: what actually helps and what doesn't</p><p><strong>This book is for parents who:</strong></p><p>Just received a dual diagnosis and feel overwhelmed</p><p>Suspected something was different long before professionals listened</p><p>Have one diagnosis but know something still doesn't add up</p><p>Want both emotional support and practical direction</p><p>Need validation that their instincts were right.</p><p><strong>Your child doesn't need to be fixed. They need to be understood supported and celebrated for who they are.</strong> This book provides the roadmap for doing exactly that—acknowledging challenges while pointing toward hope understanding and effective support.</p>