UNSTUCK

<p><strong>You don't want others to see you as a victim. But what if you see yourself as a victim?</strong> I often picture myself as a physically-able person. Every time I do I ask myself countless questions like: What would I be doing today if I didn't have dystonia? Would I be married? Where would I live? What kind of experiences would I have had by now? How would I be spending my days? If I focus on those thoughts for too long I find myself chasing could've or would've statements into a deep whirlpool of emotions that can take me down for days or weeks at a time. One question leads to another and before I know what is happening I am stuck in resentment. I know that asking God questions isn't a bad thing but I also know He may never answer some of the questions I have. Every disability has its challenges and all of them require faith and persistence. But moving from resentment to resilience is the greatest challenge of all. <strong>The hard part is remembering that God is good. Even when some days aren't.</strong></p>