Westfalia: Punched in the gut by life West is forced to face his past present and future.

The seed of this book started with a hug. But at the time of that hug. I didnt realize my life would change forever. She gently pulled me in and whispered these two words Im done. I was completely thrown off guard. I ask her what she meant. What do you mean youre done done with what? She quietly whispered in my ear Im done with us. My heart sank and a numbness of emotions consumed every cell in my body. I couldnt grasp how we could be married for twenty years and now it was over. What about our kids? Divorce was not an option for me. But then again it takes two for a relationship to be a relationship.The gut wrenching blow of any life-changing experience is truly a time to reach deep within yourself and find out who you truly are and allow that person to come through so you can experience happiness peace joy and love. I waited 16 months before starting the book. I had to live the emotions that would exude from my soul. Yeah there were some long days and sleepless nights most nights I didnt want to go to bed. I didnt want to wake up to a new day. There really werent new days they all felt used dirty and embarrassing. I went to war with my emotional self for sixteen months. On the 16th month I felt good but not great even though I thought I was great. I realized that I had accepted divorce but I hadnt forgiven my wife. That thought was my catharsis.Westfalia is a story that embarks in a dream that takes you on a spiritual adventure filled with past present and future experiences. Within this dream an eccentric character named Charlie appears in the most challenging situations and helps guide West through his emotional experiences. This adventure is filled with motorcycles surfing wing suit flying snowboarding bicycles caves and mountains. Within all these experiences West has to face anger self-destruction fear denial courage forgiveness and love.