What Are Teens Thinking? Parent-Teen Conflict and Argument From the Teen Perspective

This study explored the embodied teen experience of parent-teen conflict and argument using a hermeneutic-phenomenological approach. Teens self-identified as (a) living in a family with everyday conflict (b) not seeing a psychologist or counselor (c) not having been in any drug or alcohol treatment programs (d) not knowing the researcher ahead of time and (e) being between the ages of 13 to 19 at the time the interview took place. The following themes emerged: (a) feeling powerless small devalued and oppressed; (b) experiencing irritation frustration hypocrisy pettiness and defiance; (c) wanting freedom and autonomy and the battle for control; and (d) needing safe space and me time. Each theme and the whole embodied essence of this experience were interpreted through teens' as well as the researcher's lenses. The interpretations provide insight for teens parents and parent educators that may help improve parent-teen relationships and provide strategies to use in the classroom setting.