What they believe happened versus what I remember

If you talk to anyone who has faced trauma pain and doubts about their self-worth but has discovered happiness and acceptance they will agree on one truth: this journey is not easy. It requires time and the path is unique for everyone-some may take longer while others may find their way more quickly. Achieving happiness might be a daily struggle and while I may not face this challenge every day there are moments when my joy is tested. I am continuously learning to overcome pain and this is a lesson we all must embrace. Happiness may not resemble what you expected but as long as you find joy that is what truly matters. Remember happiness is not about achieving perfection. In fact the pursuit of perfection can lead you astray. There were times when I sought perfection but I learned that happiness and perfection are not the same and they will never be.