Whole-Ing: Non-judgment Wholeness and Personal Freedom in Our Quantum Universe

Who are we? What is our purpose? Why do we often feel unhappy or incomplete? How do we best live our lives? While questions like these have long been the focus of human curiosity satisfying answers have been surprisingly rare. However recently this search has changed dramatically because we are now re-visiting these ancient questions from a new and expanded perspective. Quantum physics and Einsteins relativity together have become two of the most paradigm-altering scientific breakthroughs since the flat-Earth days of Copernicus half a millennium ago. Today after an entire century of experiments we are finally arriving at a point where scientists and philosophers can relax their disbelief enough to speak more openly about what these very consistent experimental results might mean. This new emergent vision is not just a clarification or expansion of older ideas; instead it permanently and radically changes everything that we once believed about the manifestation potential and purpose of our small planet the entire universe and even the extremely mysterious process that we call life. We are now beginning to understand as many traditions have long foretold how the entire universe can also be found within everything in existence including a grain of sand and each of us. Today as more scientists discover surprising new patterns of interconnectedness throughout our universe what seems to be emerging is the recognition of a deeply intertwined relationship that some scientists and philosophers describe as an expression of oneness. While it may seem that we are only a small part of an enormous universe today we are realizing that the truth may be just the opposite: everything that we once experienced as being outside or external to ourselves originates from within. We dont just live in our universe the entire universe also lives within each of us. Our culture is relentless in its messaging about the need to improve ourselves. We find that no matter how hard we work at this the difficulties we experience in our lives rarely seem to subside at least for long. This isnt because we arent yet good enough. It happens instead because our conscious awareness is incomplete and not integrated leaving most of our activity to the large unconscious or dark parts of our being. When we operate through this unconsciousness we just repeat our old familiar but often disruptive patterns. Growing beyond these dysfunctional patterns is not about choosing the good parts of ourselves and rejecting the parts we think of as bad. It also does not require that we learn more or something new. Instead to dissolve these old automatic patterns we must become more whole and integrated. We can only do this by bringing illumination to the uncomfortable darkness hiding within all of us a shadow world dividing our naturally whole being into many broken isolated and incommunicative fragments. This our most important journey involves a process of discovering welcoming and honoring all parts of our authentic and complete being especially the vast areas of inner darkness that we fear and avoid the most. This book describes one such journey: the very successful process that radically changed my life through the discovery and conscious illumination of my personal shadows. My life today is powerfully energized and filled with satisfaction and joy but it has not always been this way; for most of my seventy years my experience was the complete opposite. Today instead of life appearing to work against me I experience a world that always works in joyful harmony with my entire being. In this book I describe my healing journey and the new perspective that changed absolutely everything about my life.